AMJ Blog
I have been writing a blog for some time. I use it to share my experiences and views on mental health – I had a breakdown in 2014/15 and live with depression and anxiety – and work life balance. I am passionate about working on my wellbeing and helping others to achieve and maintain the right work life balance and wellbeing approaches for them. My blog – along with my Twitter feed – comes with one health warning – if you read it you may have to hear about some of my other passions – my family, golf, Liverpool FC, communications, the Boston Red Sox, politics and the West Wing.
![My mental health jam jar](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1738321281506-H6KPHQ7D4M3SFXJY4RR4/IMG_9133+copy.jpg)
My mental health jam jar
![To medicate or not to medicate: the question clients ask me all the time.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711836237-XD7LJTSKA2YRSDE2YATM/ED2DE6FB-2C86-452B-93CE-AE9A1A047A5F.jpeg)
To medicate or not to medicate: the question clients ask me all the time.
![Reflections at the start of 2025 - from third edition of my newsletter](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1735728041673-6D0LULIO2C44MMH53HS6/IMG_8703.jpeg)
Reflections at the start of 2025 - from third edition of my newsletter
![My gratitude list for 2024](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1735666440383-WCKXNPMYZSNGK9LUHAP4/IMG_2319.jpeg)
My gratitude list for 2024
Eulogy for my dad
![It's 10 years since my breakdown](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1733686084875-51P9WDOXIX5UVEIURP3X/Screenshot+2024-12-08+at+19.22.25.png)
It's 10 years since my breakdown
![Holiday season isn’t a holiday for everyone.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1733037722202-H3AU155YDHVQ5A0YCQPO/IMG_2232.jpeg)
Holiday season isn’t a holiday for everyone.
![US election: it may be painful, but it has to be accepted](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1731437846622-K9O1NFN3U9RK5MCU1PVM/IMG_7777.jpg)
US election: it may be painful, but it has to be accepted
![For some of us, it’s hard to rest and relax - and that’s ok.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1724688596109-WFG0WWPN4G1GIJK8Z3GE/IMG_6266.jpeg)
For some of us, it’s hard to rest and relax - and that’s ok.
![Taylor Swift at Wembley: my reflections.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1719225693403-76HLFGYS0LWOGFP48E52/TS+2.jpg)
Taylor Swift at Wembley: my reflections.
![Counselling in schools: the front line of the child and adolescent mental health crisis](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1718970715302-9NTE7R6OQGJCANYAAP81/IMG_4993.jpg)
Counselling in schools: the front line of the child and adolescent mental health crisis
![Boys, men, masculinity and role models](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/abb9d80e-ba5f-4214-a62d-745c3108170d/BJ.jpg)
Boys, men, masculinity and role models
I’ve graduated with a Masters in counselling - it’s a long, long way from my lowest point
![Living as a perfectionist is incredibly tough: clients talk to me about that all the time](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/7d022d16-f1e3-4ecf-8924-39baf660c34b/D88772CC-348A-4DED-82B4-2BB77C7168DA.jpeg)
Living as a perfectionist is incredibly tough: clients talk to me about that all the time
![Being away on holiday: my worse nightmare.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1712235363620-TNKKEOCEGKHELRS9HNWJ/IMG_3981.jpeg)
Being away on holiday: my worse nightmare.
![A sense of belonging that helps lift my depression: Beannachtaí na Féile Pádraig](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1710572101743-34P9KSPHBKT25ZFKQDD9/IMG_0178.jpg)
A sense of belonging that helps lift my depression: Beannachtaí na Féile Pádraig
![Eating disorders: listening, not lecturing, is the key to recovery. We must stop the failing copy and paste approach and instead have hope. ](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/eee71793-2f95-4211-a248-a955b2d2512e/B683FC77-B4FC-4A99-A036-F1DB88CC592F.jpg)
Eating disorders: listening, not lecturing, is the key to recovery. We must stop the failing copy and paste approach and instead have hope.
![Proud to be alcohol-free for 2000 days](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1693724663819-U7D7P47MQGRIPAZNSKVR/IMG_0249.jpeg)