AMJ Blog
I have been writing a blog for some time. I use it to share my experiences and views on mental health – I had a breakdown in 2014/15 and live with depression and anxiety – and work life balance. I am passionate about working on my wellbeing and helping others to achieve and maintain the right work life balance and wellbeing approaches for them. My blog – along with my Twitter feed – comes with one health warning – if you read it you may have to hear about some of my other passions – my family, golf, Liverpool FC, communications, the Boston Red Sox, politics and the West Wing.
“You wouldn’t worry so much about what other people think about you, if you knew how little they do.”
![Eating disorders: dissertation published, ‘The role of person-centred counselling in recovery from eating disorders’](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1694772776177-8FIS7R2FGJGETSVE9D46/Screenshot+2023-09-15+at+11.11.41.png)
Eating disorders: dissertation published, ‘The role of person-centred counselling in recovery from eating disorders’
Our latest pandemic: work addiction
Trying to help someone with their mental health: a tough, sometimes, helpless journey.
![Have you found your people and your tribe or someone else’s?](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1690375227367-HM8EFPYCTNOOBOH020O2/IMG_7071.jpeg)
Have you found your people and your tribe or someone else’s?
Student mental health crisis: it’s a matter of life and death.
![Love Island: more responding and less reacting can’t hurt.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1657733084232-46H3N25S8Q7VG3MIJ33A/Screenshot+2022-07-13+at+18.20.47.png)
Love Island: more responding and less reacting can’t hurt.
Counting down the days……..
![The seven year itch: the anniversary of my hospitalisation and the start of my breakdown](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711501875-ZZR69L35BMZAQDNI3M0A/image-asset.png)
The seven year itch: the anniversary of my hospitalisation and the start of my breakdown
![Spare a thought for our leaders - it's a very, very lonely business being them and tough on their mental health](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711499469-VVQ2BD1BWICQSRNMI3EA/image-asset.png)
Spare a thought for our leaders - it's a very, very lonely business being them and tough on their mental health
![Being kind also means respecting that I'm not ready to ditch my mask or go to the match](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711499364-6Y7IG3BPUG7D7GXCFDZ5/image-asset.png)
Being kind also means respecting that I'm not ready to ditch my mask or go to the match
![Feeling below par isn't good for my golf, or anything else.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711498870-KMW4D3LNFYSHS9DRSK95/image-asset.png)
Feeling below par isn't good for my golf, or anything else.
![Honesty is the best policy - easier said than done](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711498670-DAQ9R2R3DL85ZKHULT07/image-asset.png)
Honesty is the best policy - easier said than done
![What message should we take from Christian Eriksen's collapse? Maybe not the one you think.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711498467-8FOLNZB1P3BLCAVHU90W/image-asset.jpeg)
What message should we take from Christian Eriksen's collapse? Maybe not the one you think.
![First year of my psychotherapist training: I've survived!](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711497655-NE42XSAE0QQ70HSNA8A2/image-asset.png)
First year of my psychotherapist training: I've survived!
![Mental health awareness week: raising awareness is critical but only as a stepping stone to raising us all up](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711497454-43G7R4G86Z1QOXO4YGLL/image-asset.png)
Mental health awareness week: raising awareness is critical but only as a stepping stone to raising us all up
![I'm still that little boy, wanting to be heard](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711496998-XIU7HJDFFEWCECZ7W4NI/image-asset.jpeg)
I'm still that little boy, wanting to be heard
![It's too easy to apologise for feeling down, especially during COVID](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711495954-EUOWONF3AO9LTFYUO73L/image-asset.png)
It's too easy to apologise for feeling down, especially during COVID
![I am now in the eye of the storm: what it's like to be in a depressive episode](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711494467-JQY6UQRIESAYJ9FNR2BX/image-asset.jpeg)
I am now in the eye of the storm: what it's like to be in a depressive episode
![Wellbeing at work box ticking is easy to spot](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/62178cf19f3c6a6858677c02/1645711494067-OMOJGJCPDYDI5WFOP559/image-asset.png)